For many people, coming home means being greeted by their loved ones. Whether it’s family members or pets, the warmth of their welcome brings comfort after a long day. Some pet owners, in particular, grow accustomed to their furry friends eagerly waiting for them at the door, tails wagging in excitement.
Such was the case for Roman, an optometrist and transportation company owner in Chicago. Every evening, as he returned from work, he would glance toward the window, knowing that his beloved dog, Toby, would be there waiting for him. This heartwarming ritual continued for over eleven years, a testament to their deep bond.
Sadly, Toby passed away, leaving an irreplaceable void in Roman’s life. Though it has been years since Toby’s departure, Roman still instinctively looks toward the window, hoping to see his loyal companion. However, the spot where Toby once waited now remains empty, a painful reminder of his absence.
Their journey together began fourteen years ago when Roman first met Toby, who was then just two years old. Their initial encounter was far from perfect—Toby had an accident in the living room, which frustrated Roman. At first, he found the dog troublesome, and the two often clashed.
Toby, however, was intelligent and affectionate, always seeking Roman’s attention in mischievous ways. This playful behavior often tested Roman’s patience, leading to minor squabbles between them. It was Roman’s girlfriend at the time who advised him, “Just treat Toby like a child. Don’t always get upset with him.”
Taking her words to heart, Roman made an effort to understand Toby better, and, surprisingly, Toby adjusted his behavior as well, as if he understood the change. Over the years, their bond grew stronger, even surpassing Roman’s relationship with his girlfriend. When Roman and his fiancée eventually separated, he chose to leave the house to her—but he couldn’t part with Toby.
Life moved forward, people came and went, but Toby remained by Roman’s side, a constant presence in his life. Working long hours as an optometrist, Roman often spent 8-10 hours away from home. Over time, Toby adapted to his schedule, learning to anticipate his arrival. He would faithfully wait by the window, his tail wagging the moment he saw Roman’s car pull into the driveway. Whether Roman had been gone for hours or just a few minutes, Toby’s excitement remained the same—as if he hadn’t seen his best friend in years.
Seasons changed, years passed, but Toby’s devotion never wavered. To Roman, Toby was more than just a pet—he was an irreplaceable companion, kind and gentle, especially around children. Unfortunately, as time took its toll, Toby’s health began to decline. He was diagnosed with cancer and underwent multiple surgeries, including treatment for dilated cardiomyopathy. By October 2018, the disease had progressed to stage 4 cancer and kidney failure, despite three major surgeries.
By February 2019, Toby had grown too weak to even swallow food. Roman, along with his close friends, faced the heartbreaking decision of whether to let him suffer or help him pass peacefully. In the end, they chose to take Toby to the veterinarian for euthanasia, allowing him to go without pain.
Even now, years after Toby’s passing, Roman still finds himself glancing toward the window, expecting to see his loyal friend waiting for him. The habit has become second nature, as if a part of Toby’s spirit still lingers in the home they shared.
Toby wasn’t just a pet—he was a source of love, joy, and unwavering companionship. He brightened Roman’s world, filling it with warmth and color. Like many beloved furry companions, Toby was a true family member. Though he sometimes caused mischief, he was always there—a faithful, devoted friend who will never be forgotten.
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